The Marriage Plot
by Jeffrey Eugenides
Publisher: Farrar, Straus and Giroux
Publication Date: October 11, 2011
ISBN: 9780374203054
416 Pages
Fiction
First off, just a brief summary of what’s going on in the book and then I’m going to delve into some thoughts I had as I read.
The three main characters: Madeleine, Mitchell and Leonard, attend the same college in the 1980s – both guys are interested in Madeleine romantically but she seems to only be interested in Leonard. Leonard is a manic-depressive and has many issues that stem from this condition. The story follows the three classmates from college into their post-graduate days and plays with themes of modern romantic relationships vs those traditional love stories ending in marriage from the classics.
I picked this book up on a whim at the library, having made my way through far too many dystopian young adult books and needing to read something more meaty. What struck me right off the bat was that Jeffrey Eugenides writes with great skill. There were points in the story where I don’t think I would have cared what he was writing about – I was relishing the experience as a great contrast to the dumbed-down writing of some less-than-stellar dystopian books for teens. Don’t get me wrong – there are fantastic YA dystopian fiction books out there, but the ones I read immediately prior to picking up The Marriage Plot were not of that sort.
The first theme that I noticed was that of illusion and the role it plays in life.
The only thing that had cheered him up over the summer had been an illusion. Page 141
People in the story are busy planning, basing their hopes and dreams off of their assumptions of what others are doing and thinking, only to realize after the fact that things weren’t at all what they seemed. We see the theme of illusions again in a different way when it comes to religions and people needing religious imagery/icons (i.e. illusions) in order to stand as a placeholder for a religious concept. In that respect it gave them something concrete on which to focus.
Some people need a picture. Any great religion has to be inclusive. And to be inclusive you have to accommodate different levels of sophistication. Page 137
Then there were little gems that made me laugh, especially in respect to the pretension and intellectual snobbery I encountered in some classes at college. Madeleine encounters this in her semiotics class.
Madeleine had a feeling that most semiotic theorists had been unpopular as children, often bullied or overlooked, and so had directed their lingering rage onto literature. Page 42
I’ve always thought that semiotics was a joyless subject; taking away any of the pure thrill and/or adventure of the imagination in the reading process and replacing it with an over-analytical dissection. Kind of like the difference between enjoying the taste of your favorite restaurant food, and doing a forensic analysis to break down the recipe – some of us would rather forgo the analysis and enjoy the experience of eating the meal.
Finally, there was a section toward the end of the book that was slow, on the dry side, and made me wish the book was over already. It’s filled with Mitchell’s introspective thoughts during his stay in India. Then, when I read the next passage I thought maybe it was done on purpose.
It was like plowing through late James, or the pages of agrarian reform in Anna Karenina, until you suddenly got to a good part again, which kept on getting better and better until you were so enthralled that you were almost grateful for the previous dull stretch because it increased your eventual pleasure. Page 346
The fact that the previous quote followed a dry section made me think that it was either one lucky coincidence, or more likely, that the author had a definite and skillfully executed plan.
I don’t think that this book is for everyone, in fact I was stunned that I liked it as much as I did. There is quite a bit in the story about Leonard’s mental health issues, and though some might find that depressing, I think it should be considered a credit to the author. He communicated Leonard’s problems with what seemed like great authenticity. The most appealing aspects of the book to me were the account of American college life, and of course the excellent writing in general.
I haven’t read Middlesex by the same author (I tried and gave up after about 100 pages because of the incest scenes). I have heard that most who have read both prefer Middlesex. I guess I’m just the odd one out this time around.
Rating: 4.5/5
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I’ve just got Middlesex. The Marriage Plot is also on my TBR list.
I liked this one, but did prefer Middlesex. It (Middlesex) is one of my all time favorite reads. Liked the passages you selected.
I’ll be reading this with my book club in May and I have a feeling most of the members won’t like it. My book club loves the Tudors. I’m looking forward to reading it.
I started this – read about 3 pages, and then decided I’d go back to YA! LOLOL
Sounds like this was a bit of a hit and miss read for you. Good to know your thoughts on it as it has been suggested as a possible read for one of my reading groups.
Great summing up. I read this one as well and am excited they’re making it into a film. Excited because, like you, I loved the college town stuff and HATED the long dry spell of Mitchell in India. I imagine the screenwriter will just make a montage of that bit and get back to the action. Leonard’s manic depressive personality was a challenge too; I kept wanting to shake Madeleine and shout “PICK Mitchell!” I’d love to hear what actors you think would be good for this love triangle.
I really liked Middlesex (can totally understand your being put off) and have heard this is quite different, still I’m looking forward to reading it. Thanks for such a great review.
Sounds very interesting, I haven’t read either. Not sure they are for me.
I wouldn’t be surprised if the boring bit was on purpose!
I haven’t read this but I have read Middlesex and The Virgin Suicides. I am an odd one out too as I preferred The Virgin Suicides, although I enjoyed both.
I really want to read this book since I haven’t been able to get through any of his books.
Glad to hear your reactions to this. I have it but I’ve been avoiding it for some reason and I need to get over that to experience (as you said) some real quality writing!
I just don’t know what to make of this one…some loved it while others didn’t…..
I’ve never read this author so I guess I could just jump into either one, right?
I would think so, and if you don’t care for the one you try then switch to the other one.
I really enjoyed both The Virgin Suicides and Middlesex. I have this book, but I am a bit nervous to read it…
I was surprised I liked this one as much as I did, too! I did like Middlesex a tad better, but you can’t compare the two. They are totally different books.
I understand how reading YA would make you hungry for something with some meat on its bones, especially if it wasn’t very good YA.
I absolutely loved Middlesex and this is on my TBR list. I have some friends of the same age/background as these characters who said that it really pushed some buttons for them. That can be a very good sign or a very bad one. Thanks for the review!